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Briefly, A Delicious Life (musings)

Happy Year of the Horse

After I lost access to my Bsky | X accounts, I decided to just go with it and take a break from socials.
I might try to get it back one of these days, but I don't feel the urge to do so just yet. Life has been better offline.
Please reach out directly if you have been waiting for updates on my comings and goings.

 

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Tokyo Diary

"To someone who has always felt out of place, other misfits are like the family they never had. Oddballs, weirdos, loons, sickos, they are your tribe. Tokyo around the turn of the millennium was the perfect place to meet and hang out with social deviants of all stripes. By and large, the characters I got to know between dusk and down were a sad bunch of fuck ups. Some were just sad. Some of them had money and prestige and all the rest, but they too were sad. I don't remember anyone being happy unless they were high on drugs and having sex. The bubble had burst but you could still make it hand over fist, and if you were one of those people, you would blow it all on strippers, hookers and cocaine. There were the English language teachers who dated their students and spent their nights prowling the club scene for one night stands, the expats gone to seed who had arrived a lifetime ago as interns and ended up marrying their Japanese girlfriends and now lived at their local Irish pubs with standing orders of guinness and full weekend fry ups. There was the failed yakuza wannabe who told me he didn't enjoy roughing people up but it was the only thing he was good at, so now he works for a loan shark and spends his working day harassing people who were behind on their payments on the phone or threatening to kick their door in, which was just to embarrass them in front of their neighbors, which often worked better than physical violence. There was the owner of a struggling host club who had to supplement his income by driving for an escort agency and dreamed of going back to the States. He insisted the mama-san of the agency pay him in dollars because only the greenback felt like real currency to him, which meant she had to insist that her girls turn the cash over to her whenever a client paid in US dollar, which annoyed the Russians and Colombians who worked for her because they too liked the greenback best and they came up with all sorts of excuses and the atmosphere in the car was always poisoned. There were the Ghanaian strip club promoters hustling customers on the streets of Roppongi while also trying to sweet talk any young female passing by ('Oh-neh-san, oh-neh-san, genki desu ka') into working for their club, and failing that, at least go on a date with them. There was the Dolly Parton lookalike lounge singer who had been cheated by every man who ever entered her life but still believed in love, but if love was in short supply, any one of a string of boytoy admirers would do. She once asked me if I wanted to be her daughter but we were both drunk to the gills that night and I don't recall my answer. Hanging out with these people didn't do my mental state any good, but misery loves company and I clung to my newfound sense of belonging. We all felt like we were stranded at the very edge of the universe, living in a country not our own, surrounded by a culture designed to make us feel alienated. Yet we were rather here than anywhere else, this was our Mexico."


 

Thanksgiving

Every Friday I write a little essay about how great I am and send it off to a hundred  strangers. Sometimes I receive a generic rejection two or 12 weeks later, but usually they never reply.

Thus starts an article on long-term unemployment I read in the papers the other day.

I've spent a fair bit of time reflecting on my life, now that everything is feeling like it's drawing to a close. I would be the first to admit that the path I have chosen had not been the easiest. I have despaired over the thorny patches and occasional roadblocks. There have been many sleepless nights in my teens and twenties when sorrows and worries kept me awake.

But now when I tally up the cost and benefits, I don't see the bad, I only feel grateful for what I've been spared. True, I have deprived myself of the full life experience of someone who goes through all the usual channels, college, jobs, relationships, family. At times I felt like I had skipped so much of what regular people go through in life, it was like existing in a state of arrested development.

My own unconventional experiences felt somehow less real because they were unusual, the way something exotic always seems to hover above the ordinary, like a phantasmagoria.

 

Seoul

I came across this article mentioning my old neighborhood in Seoul and it took me on a walk down memory lane.

It was a refuge for society’s rejects: people with nowhere to go, some of the poorest in Seoul, residents of the city’s tiny-room settlements and people with disabilities. In Tapgol Park, elderly women sold sexual services to older men in plain sight. Outside the park, pensioners played janggi, Korean chess, on the pavement. Around them lived musicians and artists. In Jongno 3-ga, everyone was welcome.

The area is now littered with kitschy tourist shops, claw-machine arcades and unmanned photo-booths, and, in the streets nearby, bakery after bakery, coffee shop after coffee shop. One by one, the small merchants have left, to be replaced with another dessert shop. 

In a way, I feel part of the problem. I highlighted a place I loved for being overlooked, and feel I helped create a monster. Now, as the neighbourhood becomes almost unrecognisable, I wonder what effect these rankings have on the people who live in the listed destinations.


Jongno 3-ga becoming the “world’s coolest neighbourhood” is nothing to celebrate. I feel guilty for calling it cool. I’d take the word back if I could.

For the full article by Raphael Rashid: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/sep/19/i-live-in-the-coolest-neighbourhood-in-the-world-its-not-as-great-as-youd-think

When I first arrived in Jongno 3ga, it had already come a long way from being a neighborhood for those on the margins of society. The old men still hung out at Tapgol park but were less boisterous. I remember the chess players, the old time music playing from portable radios, the knot of alleyways smelling of grilled mackerels and beef tripe stews and boiled pork. I don't remember what made me choose this place above the more fashionable parts of town, except maybe that I was instinctively drawn to it because of how well it suited me before I even knew it.

There was the convenience of being a major transfer point with three of the busiest subway lines converging. It didn't feel like it was the most interesting place to be, but it didn't have to, it was surrounded by interesting places. To the north, there was the Samcheong neighborhood with its hanok villages, and  Insadong, a little center for the arts with local artisan shops and traditional eateries abounding, a cool hang out but mostly for locals, still under the radar. I loved walking there in the evening when the illumination from the shop windows bathed the streets in golden light. To the south, there's the Cheonggyecheon stream, one of my favorite features of the Seoul cityscape. How pleasant is it to walk along its lush banks during the heat of summer, sit under the shade of the bridges, even soak one's feet in the water. 

Jongno 3ga is a big space but it felt small in an everyday way. It was where the people working in the nearby office buildings would go for food and drinks. There were whole blocks of nothing but restaurants that come evening would all be packed with people, often spilling out onto the sidewalk. It is where I got to know the Korean people's seemingly bottomless capacity for food and company, the loud and often brash way in which they celebrate, the tremendous vigor with which they attack their food, and believe me, there is no better term to describe the intensity with which a Korean person approaches the task of eating. 

It was all very local, where the old and the traditional, the artisan workshops, the pensioners, the public bath houses, would sit comfortably next to the young people's pleasures, coffeeshops, bakeries, make up and fashion boutiques, not crowding, just coexisting. I loved that there was something for everyone and that everyone shared the affection and affinity I had for this place. For many years I thought of it as my home address, not the country, the city, or the actual street or apartment building, just this place as a whole. I didn't even think of it as Seoul, Seoul was everything that was happening outside, this was my habitat. You don't have to be a local to feel that way, or be allowed to feel that way. I don't subscribe to conventional notions of nationality, home and belonging. Your habitat is where you thrive and feel nourished.

I had so many favorites. The best Burger King with my preferred seat on level 3, after a slightly nervous climb up a winding narrow staircase with my tray, in a little nook by the window so awash with the leaves of a gingko tree that it almost felt like sitting in a tree house. The gimbap takeout where you could watch the aunties pack an impossible amount of fillings into seaweed rolls, then slice them deftly and transfer the lot into a carton exactly the size of the roll. In winter, my regular lunch place was a restaurant specializing in cold noodles and sets of grilled beef and soup. It's where I learnt that there is nothing better than a cup of well peppered beef broth that you could help yourself to from a huge dispenser to warm yourself after coming in from the arctic winds. I could never get over my amazement at watching Koreans slurp their cold spicy noodles when it was so freezing outside, ice cubes clinking as they lifted their bowls to their mouths, while I huddled over my bubbling tofu stew. 

By the time of my last stays, not long before covid, much had already changed again.
There was a noticeable rise in tourist presence in Insadong, but that was to be expected. Korea was gaining so much traction, K-pop was taking over the world, K beauty was cool, the world was streaming in and it was only a matter of time that people would discover what I had known for years, that Jongno 3ga was a terrific place to live in Seoul.

After covid, I went back one more time but it didn't feel the same. So much of what I knew was gone or rearranged. Everything was blatantly geared toward pleasing the insta crowd. Stores became more generic, quality went down, the spirit was lost. I found new untouched neighborhoods near Gimpo airport, and up in Goyang, which suited me fine, but Jongno 3ga was where it all started for me, for so long it had been my window into how Koreans lived, what they enjoyed, and it was a place where I felt at ease, in peace, even while not belonging or even relating to my surroundings. While I lived there, I couldn't wait to start my days because every outing brought new discoveries, it was my treasure trove, these jolts of energy and delight, I call them the traveler's high, and this article brought back how big of a loss it was. 


 

My European Adventure has begun

September has been a whirlwind affair, where did all the time go?
I'm so grateful for the gorgeous send-off, being able to catch up with new and old acquaintances before I embark on my long anticipated leisurely stay on the continent. I arrived on a 27 degrees C day, which really feels more like 34 C on a non air-conditioned train. Men and beasts around me are wilting, I can't help wondering how it is that people in the so called developing world are able to ride on public transport in comfort, while in the first world country, you can do fuck all but fan yourself with a newspaper while sitting in a furnace. 

My new temporary home base in a picturesque little town in Germany is lovely, however, with high ceilings, tall windows that open onto chestnut trees in glorious shades of autumn foliage. There is a large open kitchen space with enough pots and pans to cook for a banquet. The larder with its many shelves is begging to be stocked with provisions. I happily oblige. My first trips around town are all visits to various grocers and bakeries, piling up loaf after gorgeous loaf of wonderfully wholesome looking smelling tasting breads made of spelt, rye and oats. I can't walk past the charcuterie section without asking for the extra long wieners on special, a hefty slice of liverwurst and some cured ham, which is supposed to go on the bread, but I suspect I will scarf down as is. I pounce on papada, pork jowl meat, my favorite part of the pig, it has a unique texture which I call 'crunchy fat', because unlike other heavily marbled meats, it is not soft but has a toothsome bite to it. I also ask for my favorite part of the chicken, here it is called pollo fino, in other parts of the world known as bonelesschickenthighswiththeskinon. The cheeses almost undo me and I have to channel my mother, who used to say, whenever I asked for too many treats, No, pick just two. The basic staples were easy, butter, eggs, pasta, bunches of fresh herbs, and whatever looked good among the fresh produce (kohlrabi and beetroots, a punnet of dusky plums, which means I am going to make a tart to christen my new kitchen).

 

​Once I've settled in, I shall devote some time to making an additional page that compiles some of my recent travel highlights.​
 

"There are no sex scenes, and all the food looks horrible."

"Have you seen it? I'm sure you have. How did you like it?"

Quite a few of recent conversations have started with that. When I tell people that I hadn't and most likely wouldn't watch Christopher Nolan's adaptation of the Odyssey, I get a look, Seriously? I thought that would be right up your alley. Given my moniker and what inspired it, anyone could be forgiven for thinking that I'd be one of the first people to line up at the cinema. This would have been entirely true of my childhood self. Fairytales and myths were my bread and butter as soon as I could read, and sword and sandal movies followed as soon as I was allowed to watch tv. Those set in ancient Greece and Rome, drawn from the pages of the Bible or Arabian Nights, Quo Vadis, Ben Hur, Spartacus, I loved them all, the critically acclaimed as well as the cheap, cheesy and cheerful ones, like the one with the Titans that had Giuliano Gemma in it (my first movie crush), or The Thief of Baghdad with Christopher Lee as an evil sorcerer, The Golden Voyage of Sinbad (there must have been a dozen Sinbad movies, but this one was my favorite, Ray Harryhausen did some good work here). The thing is, I've never met a modern day version of these adventure stories set in ancient times that I enjoyed even half as much as the productions from the 50s and 60s. Notable exceptions: 300 based on Frank Miller's graphic novel and Spartacus: Blood and Sand. Sure, the special effects were childish, the dialogues stilted and there was too much pathos all around, but it made for sumptuous viewing. The women were gorgeous and wore those flimsy flowing curtains in the wind gowns that accentuated their shapely figures, and while there was no outright bonking, it was the golden era of the movie kiss where the dashing hero would clutch the girl to his chest Fabio style (in the middle of a battle usually) and really plant one on her while she sighed and melted into his arms, completely overcome by the moment, his ardour and the rising sound of strings. Which brings us to one of the criticisms laid at Nolan's door - Where is the sex, dude? I haven't read Homer in years, but I remember there was a lot of it in the text, willing and unwilling, it was what kept Odysseus away for all these many years, not rough seas or mythical creatures, but women who wanted to keep him to themselves. 
There are no sex scenes, and all the food looks horrible, wrote Emily Wilson.
to read her full review: https://www.lrb.co.uk/the-paper/v48/n14/emily-wilson/an-uncomplicated-man
I love feasting scenes in books and movies, I love eroticism, tasteful nudity and a good bonking. Call me shallow, a glutton, a horny goat, so what? A movie without either makes for bloodless viewing, which is an odd thing to say about a story that starts and ends with so much bloodshed. I think I'll stay with the Kirk Douglas movie from the 50s until something better comes along. After reading No Friend To This House, I'd love to see what Natalie Haynes might have done with the material. 

On Regulars

I came across the question on a forum recently on what makes a client a regular.

There are repeat clients and there are regulars (I call them something different, but more on that later).
Both repeat and regular clients are people you see more than once. A repeat client might, in fact, see you more often and regularly than a regular client. The difference is how you both feel about each other. We all know that some relationships feel more special than others. It's not so much about chemistry - you can have great chemistry with repeat clients - but security. A regular, above all else, is someone who makes you feel safe. And what is that safety? Safe from harm, plain and simple. There are some people, when you meet them, it feels like you have met your person, you know you are right for them and they are right for you, you can be at ease with each other, there is a bond of mutual trust that makes the encounter effortless. With a regular, it goes deeper than that, deeper than shared pleasure and laughter and confidences whispered in the dark. A regular is someone I can trust to always have my best interest at heart and to never place their desires over my wellbeing. Shouldn't that be always the case when dealing with another human being, you might think. We should all be so fortunate to live in a world where this goes unquestioned. The reality is, people are unpredictable, sometimes entitled, often careless, they can be pushy, aggressive, without meaning to be, but also intentionally deceitful, manipulative. You don't really know whom you can trust until that trust has been extended and earned over time. Until then, you take precautions and trust your instincts. 
It is that baseline tension that you carry in a world where you have to always be guarded against having your boundaries pushed, that once you are with someone who is safe, you feel it like being relieved of a huge burden.
In short, a regular is someone I don’t have to worry about. Only I don't call them regulars. I call them a friend.
 

"He made me shiver most delightfully."

May 26 was World Dracula Day.  
Nearly all children love a spooky tale, not the ones that give you nightmares and make you afraid of the dark, but the ones that tickle you just enough to send those delicious shivers down your back and make you snuggle deeper into the cushions thinking, oh this is going to be good! I remember that hum inside my brain when I knew that a good scare was just around the corner. My favorite treat was being allowed to stay up to watch a late night Hammer horror movie, one in particular, the 1960's Brides of Dracula, a rare vampire movie that didn't have Christopher Lee in it, but Peter Cushing was heroic as Van Helsing, still fascinates me. It had such strong female characters, the Baroness and the old nurse Greta terrified me more than the bloodsucking monster. The costumes, the musical score, the cast and cinematography all stand out in my memory as one of the best productions of its genre.

Christopher Lee was my favorite screen incarnation of the Count, but I remember him best as the voice of King Haggard in The Last Unicorn. What a towering legend he was, yet everyone who has ever met him, described him as a gracious and true gentleman. It is a testament to his humanity and widespread appeal that people of so many different ages and nationalities had on his death only good things to say about him.

 

Trauma

There was an article in the papers the other day about a woman who had been bullied in school and how that experience continued to shape her decisions in adulthood . She described how the trauma never left her on a visceral level, even though outwardly she has done much to rebuild her life, having a career, a circle of caring friends, being in a loving relationship. But whenever she hears a laughing voice in the crowd, her first gut reaction is always that it is aimed at her. This sounded very familiar to me, it mirrored my own experience. Reading this article got me thinking about how my own life choices can be traced to those high school days. Like her, I have had to rebuild myself as a person after being told that I was less than nothing. Like her, I have arrived at a point where I fully embrace what I see in the mirror. To me, I am enough, I have nothing to prove to myself or the world, I want and can just be, it is enough. Outwardly I have moved on and put the past behind me. But every laughter in the crowd invokes that split second of primal fear and shame before rationality kicks in and chases away those demonic shadows.

I'm pretty sure that I would not have wanted children under any circumstances, I'm just not the maternal type. But could it be that I'm not bonding with children because my experience of them is primarily as a threat full of cruelty? 

I am an intensely private person, I feel most comfortable in the twilight, moving silently, avoiding detection. How much of that is simply the introvert part of personality and how much is due to the survival technique of prey surrounded by predators?

The truth is, I'll never know. I am only the person I am today because of all that came before. This is why, when asked if I wished all the bad stuff had never happened, I can't say that I do. Of course I wished I had been spared all that, but I have no idea what person I would then have become, but certainly I wouldn't be me right now, and I don't want to be anyone else even if it means I could have had a happier childhood. Life is a package deal.

 

People Always Ask For The Latest Selfie

So while I'm still away from social media, here is an update.

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Hanami 2026

I'm a non religious person. My places of worship are nature and the liminal space in which we seek each other out, forsaking the outside world for a taste of the sweetness that some call intimacy, freedom to express your desires, or just a break :) Every year I make the pilgrimage to my favorite cherry tree in Japan, the oshimazakura, its pickled leaves are what gives sakura mochi their distinctive aroma. Whenever I buy a box of those treats, I would save one little cake to place next to my pillow so I would fall asleep with the fragrance wafting in the air like incense.

New Gallery:  The Lady in the Bath

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I've always lived near water. River, brook, lake, dam, sea, mountain springs, hot springs. My favorite travel memories are a procession of hammams, jiljimbangs, thermal baths and onsen. 

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A great shower can turn a bad day around, a washlet redeem the most uninspired hotel room. A soak is all I need to restore body and soul.

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My latest  photo shoot is a hommage to my happy place.

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On Virgins

Every once in a while I will get an email from someone who claims to be a virgin.

But I feel like life and sex and growing up has changed so much in the past decades that there needs to be a whole discussion about what constitutes a virgin and what constitutes sex in this new age. I think we can all agree, the Gen Z virgin is an entirely different species from the Gen X virgin.

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If a virgin denotes a person who is inexperienced and innocent in sexual matters, can there even be such a thing for a generation that claims the internet as a birthright, where grade schoolers already know about blowjobs and choking, and anyone with an interest can access an encyclopaedic database on all sex related matters before they even reached puberty?

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Are you still a virgin if you are physically untouched by another person, but have touched yourself a million times and with all types of devices?


Are you still a virgin if you have yet to perform the act with another person, but have seen it performed in every anatomically possible way on a screen?


Are you still a virgin if you have not had vaginal intercourse, but have been having regular oral or anal sex?

A Slut by any other name

Ever since 'sex worker' has been introduced to the mainstream public as an umbrella term for the people in my industry, I've had clients ask me if that is what I call myself and prefer to be referred to going forward.

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With no disrespect to the sex work advocates who have fought and continue to fight for the rights of sex workers everywhere - I'm from a different generation. When I was growing up, all sex workers were commonly referred to as prostitutes. Those who worked the streets or in brothels were usually called hookers, if you worked for an agency and met your clients in fancy hotels, you were an escort or callgirl. If you happened to be the mistress of influential men in previous centuries, that would have made you a courtesan, or (my favorite) grande horizontale. Personally, I don't have an issue with any of these terms including the ones who are considered denigrating. The offense is not in the name but in the mind of the person who uses it with the intend to insult. 

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Refer to me as a tart, think of me as a slut as you beat off to the image of my wet pussy, call me a dirty whore as we both hang from the chandelier - as long as you do it as a gentleman client: honor my rate and respect my boundaries with minty breath and washed bum, we are good :)

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Appreciation

Hard to imagine it has only been a few short months since I hung up my little shingle. The response to it has been overwhelmingly positive.  People reached out just to say hi and that they liked what they saw, some offered constructive criticism, some shared their own story and why the words and imagery  resonated with them, all of which I welcome and appreciate. Life is about connection and I have been fortunate enough to have met some terrific individuals. The pleasures shared, thoughts exchanged, the generosity of spirit at the base of this endeavor, opening up to a complete stranger about your deepest fantasies, turning off that brain and just feel, enjoy, indulge, exult. It's been a divine experience.

How mature is mature?

I've been contemplating advertising as a 'mature escort'. At 38 years of age, I am closer to 40 than 30. Escorting is perceived to be a young woman's game, so I feel it's worth pointing out, in case you came here expecting some- one in their early 20s. In advertising, 'mature' essentially means middle aged, an age that according to Wikipedia spans the range from age 45 to 65. Being Asian, most people guess me to be 10 years younger. So, my problem is, I started off worrying that people might find me older than what they expected, if I don't apply the label, and ended up worrying that, once I do, those who come explicitly in search of a middle aged escort might not find me mature enough for their taste. Thoughts?

Finish the sentence

The last time I cried ... over a line from My Beloved Monster by Caleb Carr.

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The last time I pissed myself laughing ... over the pages long made-to-order porn video commission screenplay chapter in Tony Tulathimutte's Rejection.

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If I won the lottery ... nothing much would change, I'm already living life the way I want to live.

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     Keep it simple, Susan

     (by Lyndsay Rush)

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     When I hold the word success under a blacklight
     what glows back at me is ease and freedom
     Not Scrooge-McDuck-esque vaults of swimmable gold
     Not clout or fame or for The Joneses to eat my dust
     Just 9–10 hours of sleep
     Work that feels like play

     And terms and conditions that I write myself.

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​The key to a good life is ... don't covet other people's lives (and stay the fuck away from social media).

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The greatest pleasures ... are the simplest ones: making do with what you have and can afford. Like a sandwich.

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My pet peeve is ... any online submission form where I have to click myself back to the month and year of my birth. MANUALLY. IN MONTHS.

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My favorite quote to live by is ... Never look back and think, I could have eaten this!

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My favorite place to be on a Saturday night is ... home alone, tacos or pizza, ice cream with extra dollop cream or spray whip, something interesting on the telly (zapping channels like in the 90s, no streaming services at my crib).

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My favorite thing to do on a Sunday arvo ... I try to get all my shopping done on Saturday, so Sunday is just for browsing the market, walking around the city taking pictures of things I haven't noticed before, maybe it's a nice day and everyone is out and about, I like that special atmosphere, that feeling of all is right in the world, no fighting, no stress, everyone just having a good time, enjoying food or just a coffee, getting high on all that goodwill in the air.

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I try to live ... as slowly as possible.

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​A random fact about me: I adore eggs in all forms - soft boiled, hard boiled, fried, scrambled, in omelettes, cakes and quiches. But not in sauces, no hollandaise, bearnaise or carbonara for me! 

Pay What You Can (not what you want) - A thought experiment

I once ate at a pay-what-you-can cafe. Since then, the idea got stuck in my head.

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My best friend's dry response: "It's either going to be massively successful or absolutely disastrous."

I get where the disaster part comes in. People will think I'm a fraud and this is all a scam. People will try to take advantage. People will think I'm bonkers.

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Pricing is the most crucial aspect in any business. Fees are set to customer perception, market positioning and competitiveness. Providers go high or low according to their branding and their desired target demographic.

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My target customer is someone who I feel lucky to have come across, and vice versa.

 

I'm in the business of serendipity, of being in the right place at the right time for the right person. I'm sorry if it sounds cringy, I don't mean it in a sappy romance epic kind of way. I'm saying, we are two strangers who found each other across the internet and we happen to click and have a fabulous time not because we are perfect but because we just happen to be right for each other in that moment, in that mood. For that to happen, the stars have to be truly in alignment. Or as the Taylor Swift song goes, "It was rare, I was there....".

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How do you set a pricing strategy for making delightful chance discoveries? You can't really.

All you can do is put yourself out there and be open to what comes your way. Life has a way of working out. The important lesson I learned is to not get in the way. I want to leave that room with a smile on my face as much as you do. I don't have any new year's resolutions for 2026, but a new year always carries a notion of a clean slate, of new beginnings. So why not cast away the doubts and do the radical thing: take a chance and see what happens?

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It's not that big of a step. With my regulars, we hardly talk numbers anymore anyway. They take care of me, I take care of them. I prefer it that way. The gift is in the giving. 

 

Honesty boxes have been around for ages and they work (for the most part) because people are fair-minded (for the most part). Or at least, they see the point of why doing the right thing is the right thing to do.

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This industry has a way of stripping your notion of common decency due to the numbers of bad actors one runs into on both sides of the aisle. People get burned, and with each bad experience, a bit more trust and goodwill goes down the drain and we are all poorer for it. But walking around expecting the worst of people is no way to live. Sometimes, trust has to be advanced to make a go of it. 

 

"In an age of irony, the deepest subversion is to be sincere." Let's break some eggs?

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